Sunday, October 20, 2024

Book Review [169] : Rework

'Rework' is a beautifully written work by Jason Fried and David Hansson. It's such a lovely read that you can finish it within couple of days if not in a day.

There are pretty good few lessons from this book.

Workaholics are not Heroes - It sounds pretty logical today, but I was kind of one 10 years back and I consider to be that even today. In my first job way back in 2005 I used to consider those people who leave office by 0630 PM as losers and mediocre and whose who burned midnight oil as actual geeks. This is pure poison and basically it kills good office culture. It should be avoided and this book underscores this point really well.

We should take responsibility of bad news and failures. We should not let the rumour mongers decide our response to failure.

Don't be a fake. No body likes plastic flower. Be natural and be spontaneous.

We need to know how far we can push some one. This is the thing I read few decades back from some Australian Cricket player when he talked about Steve Waugh leadership. He wrote that if Steve asks us to hit our head to the wall, we will do it without thinking twice. This is one of the most fundamental traits of a good leadership.

Perfect time never comes so don't defer your decisions waiting for that moment. Every decision made is a progress.

The single most important thing that is killing our productivity is interruption - Calls, Social Media etc. The one who can get long slot of free time can immensely improve one's productivity. 

Almost every point in this book is common sense and we all know about it but we hardly follow it. This book is about reworking on those points.

Highly Recommended (10/10)



Saturday, October 12, 2024

Book Review [168] : The Almanack Of Naval Ravikant

I joined Hardoi on 14th July late evening and it took me close to three months to get things rolling and to create a kind of morning schedule. It rained quite a lot in Hardoi this monsoon and it stopped only in Sept.

I started with 'The Almanack Of Naval Ravikant' by Eric Jorgensen last week. Naval Ravikant has become a cult figure in modern techno pop culture and has been immensely popular and successful in different segments.

This book has been a refreshing read after a long time. Pithy book of ancient, medieval and modern wisdom packaged in a novel way. There is nothing new in this book but still it's a must read book for all of us specially for those who are in their mid thirties or forties. I am kind of an avid reader though I suffered kind of a lag in last half a decade mainly because of my demanding work engagements. This is my kind of a book. 


For the readers of this ancient blog I am putting here points that I like most:

  • Reading/learning are the ultimate meta skill. One should never stop it.
  • Distraction is a big killer and it makes your mind heavy and confused.
  • Meditation every day is a must.
  • Anger means loss of control over a situation and its suicidal.
  • Work out every day is a must.
  • One day should be kept free every week from mundane work.
  • Inspiration is perishable. It should be acted upon immediately.
  • Intentions do not matter, actions do.
  • Become the best in the world at whatever you do. Keep refining yourself.
  • World as hard as you can.
  • Give more time on decision making.
  • If you can't decide, then the answer is No.
  • Criticise generally but praise specifically.
  • Don't waste your time living some one else's life.
A highly recommended book (10/10).


Tuesday, September 24, 2024

Land Between Two Rivers, Bandits and Soldiers

To trace footsteps of one's ancestors is always fascinating. Whenever i find time, i do that.
 
On 22nd September i was really fortunate to get an opportunity to visit my first homeland in Uttar Pradesh (as per the available records of my family from primary sources). This is my only third visit to this great place. I am still more inclined to call Naurejpur (District Jalaun) - the village of my grandmother as my village.
 
Shri Kesari Singh Ji migrated from our ancestral village Binega (District Karauli, Rajasthan) to Pura Baghraj village on the bank of Chambal in Bah region of Agra district. He was married to a lady from Bhadoria Rajput family. His son Shri Jawahar Singh Ji was my great grandfather. My grandfather Shri Kammod Singh Ji was born in 1938-39 in this village.I had never met my great grandfather but my grandfather is responsible for whatever i am today. He left me just before my UPSC CSE 2014 mains exam in Nov 2014. In 2019 i visited Binega (Karauli, Rajasthan) during Mundan ceremony of Rajyavardhan at Kaila Devi Temple.


                                             
 
The entire village came to the main Chauraha to receive me on 22nd Sept afternoon. There were DJs, bikes, flowers and garlands. I was so overwhelmed that i cant express in words. It was really a touchy moment for me. My brothers, uncles and entire village were so happy with tears welling in their eyes. It was a life time kind of a moment. After paying my regards to all of them and attending Shrimadbhagwat Katha ceremony organized by Lt Col (retd) Shri Gajendra Singh Ji i took the tour of the village and its surroundings.



 
 
I visited the place where Sunil Dutt and Wahida Rehman starred film 'Mujhe Jeeno Do (1963)' was shot. The shooting of this film was done in this region (Bah and Muraina) and it shows the lives of Bandits (also called Dacoit/Daku) of that era. I have heard so many stories of bandits since my childhood - Man Singh, Madho Singh, Lakhan, Roopa, Malkhan Singh, Pan Singh Tomar etc. Nirbhay Gurjar was the last bandit of this area and was neutralized in a Police encounter in 2005. Bollywood did dis service to this region by showing bandits with horses. There are no horses in Chambal ravines. Bollywood created image of Texas cowboys in Chambal. The only film that was close to reality was 'Pan Singh Tomar (2012)'. Chambal is couple of km from my village. It is full of crocodiles and my family relatives and my village people are closely associated with Operation Crocodile.
 
 
 
 


 
This entire region surrounding Chambal covering parts of Madhya Pradesh (Bhind and Muraina districts) and parts of Agra district is locally called Bhadawar land (i.e. land of Bhadoria Rajputs). Two great rivers Yamuna and Chambal flow through this region. This land is also known for giving great soldiers and officers to Indian Army as well as to Police. So many sons of this soil have sacrificed their everything in the service of Bharat Mata. The last great Officer being former Air Chief Marshal R K S Bhadoria (2019-2021). Now the bandits are history and Indian Army/Police is present and future appears to be brighter.
 

 

Subedar (retd) Dal Singh made a huge contribution in changing the landscape of this region from the land of bandits to the land of soldiers. Shri Dal Singh served in Army and he fought in World War 2. He donated his entire land and helped in establishing a Junior High School with a big playground in Pura Baghraj. He died in 1954 but he left behind a great legacy. This ground gave hundreds of Soldiers/Officers. I inaugurated a Volley ball tournament in his memory during my visit.


Bateshwar Dham is a great religious place close to my village (about 15 km). It is a collection of 101 temples dedicated to Bhagwan Shiv. Yamuna Ji flows touching the steps of these temples. These were built about a 1000 years back and have played a great role in shaping the religious and cultural outlook of the people. I was so blessed to get a chance to pray in these ancient temples.
 


Its been my honour to be associated with this great land full of chivalry, rich cultural heritage and two mighty rivers.

Monday, July 15, 2024

Bijnor Diaries

On 13th July afternoon i got the news that i have been transferred to Hardoi district as SP Hardoi. Transfer is a routine process in the life of a Police Officer. I enjoyed each and every second of my stay in Bijnor. Its a fabulous district full of greenery and large-hearted generous people. I joined Biinor Police as SP on 14th of March 2023 and i completed 16 months of tenure to be precise.

Monday, July 08, 2024

Shrimadbhagwadgita - Finally I read It

'Shrimadbhagwadgita' is the most seminal knowledge ever revealed to humankind. Many great people from the likes of Shankaracharya to Mahatma Gandhi, Dr. Radhakrishnan and many others had written commentaries on this great text. 

I was a kid when Maharabharata serial used to come on Doordarshan and I still remember the massive crowd that used to gather in to watch this great serial. Then for the first time I heard about Gita. Since then I wanted to read it, memorise it and to follow it.

I bought my first and only Gita in 2001 when I was in first year of college life. This was Dr. Sarvapalli Radhakrishnan translation/commentary on it. I started reading it but could not pass through the first few shlokas. I made many such attempts but could could not pass through first chapter itself.

During my 19 months stay as head of Baghpat Police (2021-2023) I was gifted multiple copies of Gita by Dharmic people of Baghpat. For the first time I attended functions to celebrate Gita Jayanti Diwas in Baghpat but my attempt to read Gita was not successful.

2024 Lok Sabha election was held in first phase in Bijnor on 19th April 2024 and immediately after that I started reading it as first thing in the morning. I must say Robin S Sharma's seminal book '5 AM Club' has a great role in it. This book inspired me to wake up before 5 AM. Since April 2024 I have been waking up between 0430 AM - 0450 AM without single break and I feel so good about it. So because of this book I got time in morning to read Gita.

In last three months I have read Bhagwad Gita two times. Shrimadbhagwadgita Yatharoop by Bhaktivedant Swami Prabhupad is a profound and easy translation of Gita. Such is its brilliance that I can't start my day without thinking/reading about it.

There are 18 chapters in Bhagwad Gita and about 700 Shlokas. Every Shloka is a highly profound text of wisdom ever revealed. I like few of those Shlokas very much.







There are about 700 Shlokas in Gita and every Shloka gives us directions/advise/wisdom to solve our dilemma and to do our duty. To do duty against all kinds of challenges without fear or favour, without greed or grief is the ultimate lesson from Shrimadbhagwadgita.

To those who have still not read Shrimadbhagwadgita I request them to please read it. I was late by 23 years you should not be late by even a day.

कर्मण्येवाधिकारस्ते मा फलेषु कदाचन । मा कर्मफलहेतुर्भुर्मा ते संगोऽस्त्वकर्मणि ॥

Sunday, June 30, 2024

Tears, Tears and Tears

Last year on 19th Nov 2023 we were shattered, decimated, destroyed, emotionally damaged, sullen and sunken. The highly charged and extremely successful World cup dream was yet again vaporized by our arch nemesis Australia. At one time we thought we were cruising but one missed shot by Rohit Sharma and lower order collapse (Surya Kumar Yadav and Ravindra Jadeja) lost us the great opportunity. This was a terrible loss and it brought back the ghastly memories of 2003 World Cup Final loss where our superb campaign led by captain Sourav Ganguly suffered the same fate against Australia. We thought its over for Rohit and company.
 
The situation was further aggravated by Mumbai Indians captaincy controversy and much publicized 'dissensions' within the ranks.
 
 
I did not give any importance to 2024 T20 World Cup but the way Rohit Sharma played one of the greatest T20 Innings against our arch rival Australia brought my faith back in the dream. I have not seen a better T20 inning than that one. Rohit Sharma single handedly destroyed Australia and it has a soothing effect on the visceral wounds of 2003 and 2023 World Cup Final losses. This match revolutionized old fans specially of my (1980s born) generation. Captain Rohit was back and so was our campaign.
 
Captain continued his intent and fearless cricket against England in Semi Final on a very tough wicket. The way he, Surya Kumar Yadav, Hardik Pandya and Ravindra Jadeja played we knew that this time is ours. Bumrah has always been exceptionally perfect and Kuldeep Yadav, Axar Patel, Arshdeep Singh bowled exceptionally well too.
 
 
Now we were in Final. It was the Final match between all time chokers and chokers of last 10 years (we have recently achieved this ignominious title after losing 2014 T20 Word Cup Final, 2019 World Cup Semi, 2021 and 2023 World Test Championship Finals and 2023 World Cup Final). I knew in my heart that South Africa is the greatest Choker but mind was somewhere else.
 
My District Magistrate organized a big screen to see the final, i resisted as i organized the same on 19th Nov 2023 and we lost that match so i was kind of superstitious but nevertheless it was done. We started well but again missed shot of Rohit, unlucky edge by Rishabh Panth and rash shot of Surya Kumar Yadav brought us back the memories of last Final. It was the same deja vu sinking feeling yet again but a brilliant controlled inning by big match player Virat Kohli and superb counter attack by Axar Patel brought us some hope. The consolidation work was clinically finished by the team and we were back in the match.
 
 
Jasprit Bumrah and Arshdeep Singh started  brilliantly but Kohli like inning of Quinton de Kock brought South Africa back in the game. 54 runs were needed from last 6 overs and South Africa had 6 wickets in hand. The match was slightly tilted towards South Africa at this point. Klaasen scored 24 runs in 15th over bowled by Axar Patel and it included two Sixes and two Fours. The match was sealed and no team can think of losing this match from this equation - 30 runs, 30 balls and 6 wickets in hand. But World call them chokers not without any reason. The Choker title has multiple generations contributions from the days of 1999 World Cup. South Africa has been numero uno holder of this title and how dare a novice India challenge this, no chance.
 

Last 5 overs were the most brilliant overs ever bowled by perhaps any team in a World Cup Final. Pandya brought us back in the match after taking Klaasen wicket.
Now 22 runs from 18 balls and 5 wickets in hand it was South Africa match even at this point of time. 18th over was bowled by Jasprit Bumrah and it was a superb exhibition of all time great bowling. He gave just two runs and took out Jansen by a mysterious ball. No one saw how it went pass through the defense pf Jansen. We were back in the game.
 
 
 
 
20 runs from 12 balls and 4 wickets in hand. Equation was tense and it was advantage India at this point. Arshdeep yet again bowled a brilliant over and gave just 4 runs. South Africa needed 16 runs from last over and it was Pandya's turn to play Hero. First ball was a full toss an it looked like a Six but Surya Kumar Yadav did what even a Superman cant dare to think. It was the greatest catch ever taken and this catch sealed the match for us. 
 



We won the match, we won the Cup and we kind of ease out the pain of 2003 and 2023 Final losses. We celebrated with the Police force, we celebrated with the people, we celebrated in the home, we celebrated on the streets, we burned crackers, we shouted, we cried and we did what we always wanted to do. The Cup has returned home after 17 years, another Cup should return soon. Thank you Captain Rohit Sharma and thank you entire Team. Thanks for the fearless cricket played by you throughout this world Cup. Thank you Rahul Dravid, finally you have the World Cup.
 


 
 
 
The good thing about time is, it changes. On 19th Nov 2023 there were the tears of shattered dream, on 29th June there are tears of victory. We cried in 2003 World Cup Final, we cried in 2019 World Cup Semi Final, we cried in 2023 World Cup Final. This time too we cried but these cries were same that we experienced in 2007 and 2011. We forgot that for a very long time. It's a huge redemption. It's a huge huge win. To win World Cup from such a situation was not possible even in wildest of imaginations and millions may have switched off their TVs after 15th but our Team had resilience and steel and we showed them when it mattered the most.
Congratulations Team India and congratulations fans.
 

Thank you Virat and Rohit for the memories. Thank you for everything.


 


 

Sunday, June 09, 2024

Crime Diary : Black Shirt, Buttons and a gruesome Murder

On 29th May 2024 at about 2015 hrs i was strolling in my lawn when i got the news that a property leader has been shot point blank near St Mary Chauraha and was declared dead in District Hospital. It was a sensational murder in a crowded place. I immediately rushed to the Hospital that is about 100 m from my residence. The family members of the deceased were shattered and were inconsolable. I could not see them in their eyes. It was my failure as i am the District Police Chief. 
It was my responsibility to find the perpetrators and to ensure justice in this case and we have to do it quickly.

Bijnor Police Version:

https://x.com/bijnorpolice/status/1795848206628376895

 

Media:


 

We immediately rushed to the scene of crime. Teams were quickly deployed. Near crime scene we found a black shirt in bushes and few buttons torn from the shirt. In order to confuse us the killers deliberately threw off  their shirt so that we can not track them through CCTV cameras. We kept faith and zeroed in. In three days time we were able to find the shop from where that particular shirt was bought. This shirt, CCTV footage, Mobile CDR Analysis and Motive behind this gruesome murder solved the case for us. This shirt played the most important role in solving this case. Locard Principle always works.

So far we have been able to arrest 9 accused and we prevented two more Supari killings as these shooters were given money to kill two more.


 

 


Bijnor Police Version:

https://x.com/bijnorpolice/status/1797515078499184679

 

This case was very complicated one and gave us sleepless night. It was because of sheer competence, tenacity and never say no attitude of Bijnor Police we were able to solve the case. Among all cases closure is absolutely important in blind murder cases.

Before we had any lead I went to pray at Siddh Bali Maharaj (Kotdwar) and Mordhaj Shivalaya (Najibabad). Bhagwanji blessed us all on very same day and the case was solved within next few hours.

https:https://x.com/bijnorpolice/status/1795848206628376895//x.com/bijnorpolice/status/1795848206628376895

Wednesday, June 05, 2024

Dance of Democracy : LS 2024 Elections

It's been a long marathon and like all marathons it was a highly satisfying one.
To conduct any election is a highly challenging and a highly skilled job and to conduct the biggest election on this planet in a fair, transparent and peaceful manner requires a lot of sacrifice and commitment. 

Bijnor is a huge district covering 8 Assembly constituencies with a population of about 40 lakhs and about 100 km East-West expanse and 80 km North-South expanse. The demography is highly complex and people from all sections are well represented in this district. To conduct fair, peaceful and transparent elections was a major challenge in Bijnor and I am so proud when I say that Bijnor Police conducted itself in an exemplary manner and met the expectations of Honourable Election Commission. Not even a single complain came. Everyone including candidates, political parties and common people appreciated the excellent job done by Bijnor Police.

We started preparing for LS elections in November 2023 itself. The entire team from beat constable to SHO, from CO to Add SP and all support staff worked like a well oiled machine. This was my fourth election as a District Police Chief. Panchayat Elections of 2021 was my first election as SP Hapur, Vidhan Sabha 2022 election was my second election as SP Baghpat, Local Urban bodies 2023 election was my third election as SP Bijnor and Lok Sabha election 2024 was my fourth. This election was the best so far. 

My seniors guided me and solved my problems whenever I approached them. Without their guidance and supervision nothing was possible.

Special thanks to Inspector Harishchandra Joshi (Incharge Election cell) despite of him retiring next month he did a herculean job and tolerated by frequent frustrations. Add SP Ram Arj (SP Rural Bijnor) was nodal officer of elections and he did an excellent job. To prepare duty charts, arranging accommodations, transport, briefing etc require lot of patience and minute detailing. He did excel in everything. Thanks to all the Police personnel who came from different organisations and from different districts of UP.


Finally I dedicate this successful completion of LS election to each and every member of Bijnor Police, to each every member of Bijnor Home Guards and to the public of Bijnor without their cooperation nothing would have been possible.




Thank you all 👏👏


Sunday, May 26, 2024

Crime Diary : Crime that shook the Criminal Justice System

On 17th Dec 2019 Bijnor saw unprecedented scenes, one history sheeter criminal named Shahnawaz  who was accused in a murder case and was brought on hearing to Bijnor by Delhi Police was shot dead by three men Sahil, Sumit and Akhraj inside CJM court. Shahnawaz was shot 12 times. All three accused were caught by policemen present inside the court. The court officials and policemen showed exemplary courage and facing grave danger they caught all the three accused. Constables Manish Kumar, Vikas, Ravi Kumar, Sanjeev and others did exemplary work. This was a huge incident and created a huge problem. Orders were passed for proper security of the courts.
 
This incident was all over the media national and state both.
 








 



This was a revenge killing over property dispute. On 28th May 2019 property dealer Haji Ehsan and his nephew Shadab were shot by Shahnawaz and his men over property dispute. Haji Ehsan's son Sahil conspired with Sumit and Akhraj to kill Shahnawaz and his men inside court. There was no feeling of any remorse.

This case went on for 52 months. 157 hearings took place. This case was closely monitored by our team and on every day of hearing stringent security protocol was put in place. Our Investigating team, monitoring cell and prosecution team did a good job and on 23rd May Honourable Court awarded life imprisonment to main accused Sumit. Hope this will bring a permanent closure to a series of killings in which 3 persons were killed in last 5 years.

Conviction was also covered widely by the media.





 

This case is very important for the entire criminal justice system mainly on three points:

  • Security of our courts
  • Security of witnesses 
  • Speedy disposal of such cases

Hope incidents like this will never happen in our courts.

Sunday, May 19, 2024

Crime Diary : Bijnor Shocker

On May 16th/17th midnight at about 0040 hrs my PRO informed me that two girls (5 and 7 years old) had been found murdered in one room house in Goahawar Jait village coming under Noopur Police Station. This was a sensational information so I immediately rushed to the crime scene along with my team. Field unit team along with Dog squad team was also called in.

We reached the crime spot in about 45 minutes. The crime scene was a house with just 3.5 m by 2.5 m size room. This family is a very poor family. There are 5 daughters (13 years, 11 years, 7 years, 9 years and 5 years old) and 1 year old son. The first two daughters are from first marriage of Kavita (name changed)  and remaining are from her current husband Namdev (name changed). Wife is sick and husband works in a kiln close by. The entire village was in a shock and about 100 odd people including women and children were present there. We tried hard to console the inconsolable father. It was a heart wrenching crime scene. Two innocent girls of 5 and 7 were lying on ground with their bodies covered by a sheet. Who can kill these little girls?


There was no sign of struggle or forced entry in the room. The eldest daughter told me a story coming straight from a film that two men wearing black clothes, black masks and black gloves entered the house and strangulated the two girls and ran away while entire family was sleeping in the same room. No one heard any sound. The girl was frequently changing her statements. 

The crime scene and her frequent changing of statements raised enough suspicion so we called a very competent female Police Officer to interrogate the girl. The girl broke down and told us a very terrible, shocking and mortifying story. She confessed that she herself strangulated her two younger sisters in their sleep with her dupatta. 

We tried hard to find the reasons of this horrifying murder. The reason behind this crime came from two uneasy childhood trauma:

  • The eldest daughter was from first husband and the deceased daughters from the current husband. There was a sibling envy coming from the very fact that the biological father of eldest daughter was not with her while her younger sisters were living with her own parents. Father used to dote his biological children more than his step children.
  • The eldest daughter used to do all the household chores and villagers told us that she used to get frustrated of the daily work and used to complain a lot.
These two terrible daily experiences might have caused her 13 year old mind to do the unthinkable crime. 

Everyone including each one of us, media and others were finding it extremely challenging to believe that a 13 year old kid can kill her sisters in their sleep. This girl is victim as well as accused and has been sent to Juvenile care centre. 

Bijnor Police official press note/byte

https://x.com/bijnorpolice/status/1791299264485663020


Coverage by media





This incident will continue to haunt all of us who attended the crime scene and were involved with the investigation.

May Bhagwan give shanti to the family and also bless the eldest daughter.

Monday, May 13, 2024

Crime Diary : Sometimes Truth is stranger than Fiction

Policing gives so much experiences that sometimes it becomes really tough not to believe the depravities that humans are capable of. In last one week I came across two such crime stories from Bijnor that shook my normal Policing attitude.

Case 1: The first case is from Seohara Police station. In this case one lady brutally tortured her husband. No one could have believed the story of husband that her wife tortured him if that entire was not caught in the camera. This story caught the focus of national media and some international media people also covered it. Bijnor Police did a good job and arrested the lady within a day and sent her to Jail where she rightly belong. This also underscores the main point about our cognitive and societal biases where women are mainly considered victims in almost all matrimonial disputes. We need to get rid of all our such biases.



Detailed press note is here:
https://x.com/bijnorpolice/status/1787033230140445151



Case 2: The second case is from Dhampur Police Station. In this case one serving Police constable planned a heinous crime to put pressure on the family of girl with whom he had tumultuous affair few years back. He called his friends and after liquor session he asked his friend to shoot him in the leg so that later he can blame brother of the girl for the attack. His story was almost fullproof but the detailed investigation and interrogation cracked his story. All his accomplices (3 in number) and he were arrested on 12th May and sent to jail.

Detailed press note is here:
https://x.com/bijnorpolice/status/1789646306983469135















The degeneration of humans knows no limits and a criminal mind is capable of doing each and every depravity that we are not even capable of comprehend.
As someone rightly said somewhere "Sometimes Truth is stranger than Fiction".

Sunday, April 28, 2024

Book Review [167] : Atomic Habits


After successful completion of first phase elections in Bijnor I got a little break to read and ponder. So I read this brilliantly written book 'Atomic Habits' by James Clear. The concepts are very fundamental as it speaks about minute improvements on a daily basis by developing good habits and deleting bad habits. In long run the good habits will give you the compounding effect and your progress will surprise the world. The example of British Cycle team in winning large number of medals in Olympics after their coach did fine improvements in almost every thing by breaking down complex tasks in simple tasks and improving simple tasks.

Few years back I saw one example of Chinese bamboo told by Rahul Dravid. For years Chinese bamboo seems the not growing but it once comes out it reaches 90 feet height within few weeks. It's a great learning lesson from this story. Your foundation decides how long you will go and habits play a great role in building your foundation.

So develop good habits, continue with them and continue deleting bad habits. Have a good time.

Highly Recommended (10/10)

Wednesday, January 17, 2024

Book Review [166] : The Courage To Be Disliked

 

'The Courage to be disliked' by Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga is a book inspired by Adlerian Psychology. I bought it from Amazon after seeing it as a best sellers and 'Over three million copies sold worldwide' written on top of it. I have read many self help books but i will not rate this book in my top 5 books.

I gave sufficient time and energy to read this book but it failed to inspire me. I think i am at fault in getting some thing meaningful from this book. The few concepts that can be useful in one's life:

  • Separation of tasks
  • Feeling of community
  • Having confidence in others
  • Horizontal relationships
  • We always have a choice to chose our destiny
  • Cribbing over past is not right
  • Everything is a complex of inter personal relationship problems
  • Praise and Rebuke are manipulative tools
  • Respecting boundaries are important 

This book is written in a dialogue form and this has put me off. At many places it reeks of boredom and banal megalomania. 

Time Pass Read (5/10)

Tuesday, January 02, 2024

My reading list of 2023

2023 is finally over. It was the best of the years, it was the worst of the years like every passing year. Not many books i read this year. I read four books this year:

 


162. 'The 48 laws of power by Robert Greene' This is a collection of 48 laws - basically common sense. It has more than 100 interesting anecdotes from history involving Sparta, Athens, Napoleon, Alexander, Cyrus, Rommel, Colombus etc. A good read to stop and ponder. Only caution is that do no let this book change core of your unique personality. Read it with pinch of salt. Recommended (8/10).



163. 'Why We Sleep' by @sleepdiplomat (Mathew Walker) is perhaps the most seminal book I read in 2023. Over a period of more than a decade I never slept more than 5 hours/day. This book is a kind of revelation. We must sleep at least 7 hours everyday to ensure our mind works in a logical and healthy manner. We tend to forget this and deprive our mind/brain of necessary recovery. Highly recommended book (10/10).



164. This is the least important book that i read in 2023. Though I like the concept of death and the story of Japanese fighter Hiroo Onada but still not much in this book. You can safely ignore it.







165. I started reading this book on Kindle then I bought the hard copy. It's a great book for personal transformation & to get yourself out from the rut. It's all age old wisdom in the book. Early to sleep, early to rise. Reflections. It is not very new in the book. We all know that we should wake early and should sleep early but not all of us follow it. The beauty of this book lies in its convincing arguments. Because of this i started waking up early at about 0545-0600 every morning and i am loving every bit of it. I will recommend every one to read this book and you can gift this book too. Highly Recommended (10/10).